You've been on several dates with a man who's great to be with. He never ghosted you and you get along well. He's interested! He just needs a little push to commit as he plans.
It's okay to feel frustrated about persuading a guy to commit, but don't sound desperate. Sounding too eager about getting him to commit would make him think you want him more.
You want commitment. But don't bring this up every time—it may seem like you're pressuring him to commit. If you constantly pressure him, he may want to spend less time with you.
Men have feelings like women. Though less vocal about their emotions, they do emote. Convincing your boyfriend that he can count on you is a certain approach to g him to commit.