You've been on several dates with a man who's great to be with. He never ghosted you and you get along well. He's interested! He just needs a little push to commit as he plans.
Be frustrated, but don't sound desperate. You may appear desperate if you try too hard to get him to commit. Relationships suffer. Begging for love and commitment can turn him off.
Want commitment? Don't keep bringing this up—it may look like you're forcing him to commit. He may avoid you if you pressure him. Avoiding commitment talk may make your lover reconsider. He contemplates commitment.
Moderate jealousy works. It sometimes helps people understand. Mentioning your ex may intrigue him. He may request commitment emotionally.
Men feel like women. Less emote. To get your lover to commit, show him you can be trusted. Most guys need emotional and mental assistance, not financial support.
The heart grows fonder with distance. This improves relationships. 24/7 availability can make your partner take you for granted. Your partner should commit first.