13 best ways to flirt with a Guy

We all have a hidden crush—that guy who makes us daydream and sweat. You probably promised to flirt and ask him out. 

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But you don't know how to flirt with guys! It's easy to imagine your first flirting chat, but actually having it might be stressful.

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Eye Contact

Since you haven't spoken yet, eye contact is your best way to indicate interest if you've seen him across a bar or at a party.

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Eye Contact

Hold his gaze as you scan the room. Keep looking. Smiling shyly, glance away slowly. Guys are like that, so it may take a few tries to get your point over.

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Smile

Many women believe that being an ice queen who plays hard to get is the best dating strategy. Disregard that counsel. 

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Smile

Sweet, cheerful women are more attractive than sour ones. Smiles, laughter, and positivity are attractive. Don't laugh at everything he says—it's creepy—but seem interested and excited. 

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Body Language

Even without speaking, your body language can say a lot. This includes eye contact, smiling, and two additional things. Avoid arm crossings. Crossing your arms scares guys away. Avoid doing this when nervous.

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Caress Him

A few "accidental" but well-timed touches can change a man's mind about moving forward. He will feel closer to you and more comfortable. 

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Caress Him

However, touch discreetly. A gentle arm jab when he jokes works wonderfully. When vulnerable, put a loving hand on his shoulder.

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Subtly Put Yourself In His Path

Flirting requires frequent contact with the guy. Try to cross his route without being evident. Take your pet to the football park where he plays or go by his workstation. However, don't stalk him.

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Be Witty

Witty ladies attract men. Use your wit to flirt. Avoid sarcasm and trite remarks that make you sound needy or pushy. Make him laugh with natural humor. If your effort fails, he may find it funny. Stay strong. Flirt differently.

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Be Interested

It's not about sarcasm or bragging. It's about true listening. He will feel special if you ask the right questions and pay attention. Interested in him? Discuss his hobbies and family. Don't rant while he's talking.

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