Science Explains Love Dating's Chase Thrill

First impressions are exciting. You get excited when you see them and daydream about your future together.

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Are you in love or just enjoying the chase? Neuroscience suggests that the chase may be the most exciting part of dating.

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Your new beau may be perfect, but other factors may make you think you've found the one.

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The chase relies on dopamine, which induces pleasure and reward.

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Bahra explains that when we pursue a romantic interest, our brains release dopamine, elevating our emotions.

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These dopamine rushes create an addictive feedback loop, propelling us to seek more of these pleasurable experiences,” he says.

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We chase for dopamine-fueled rewards. This inspires us to keep going. Dating someone who isn't sure what they want would seem odd.

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However, some of us enjoy uncertainty. Bahra feels the chase's uncertainty adds excitement. 

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“When the outcome of our pursuit remains uncertain, our brains become more engaged, triggering an increased release of dopamine,” 

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Uncertainty keeps us on our toes and fuels our pursuit.

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